omg! the inlaws got the baby a 2nd hand mattress used by another baby (not for a shortwhile) for the cot. apparently it's 'clean' after their maid cleaned it. omg omg!!!!

i may seem ungrateful, but with possibility of sids and for reasons of hygiene, i told m earlier that 2nd hand cot is ok but the mattress must be new. and he said, dont worry... so much for that.